The Perfect Guide - How To Stop Being A Nice Girl And Make Any Man Want You! http://tinyurl.com/mpqcrqc “Why Is It That Men Can’t Say What They Mean, Or Do What They Say?”- An In Depth Explanation. It’s that moment where you feel as though a man sounds downright hypocritical, dishonest, inconsiderate, deceptive, manipulative, and disloyal. You know what I’m talking about…it’s the moment when you realize that men say things they don’t mean. It’s that eye opening realization that men say one thing, but mean the EXACT opposite; and that men say and do two different things. Sometimes it even FEELS as though men are doing this on purpose. Shouldn’t it be simpler than this? Shouldn’t men be ABLE to communicate? Right now it feels like a cruel and sick game is being played on you, as you try to match his actions to his words, or his words to his actions. Nothing adds up, and if he really cares about you, why can’t he just be upfront and honest with you? Why is it so hard for men to get things straight?
The Perfect Guide - How To Stop Being A Nice Girl And Make Any Man Want You! There’s a simple explanation for this. You’ll find that when emotions are involved, a man is almost NEVER able to truly say what he means. In other words: Any Time Feelings Are Involved, A Man Will Act Outside Of Logic. Emotions defy all logic. But what IS logic? Logic is simply our ability to reason and make sound judgments. Naturally, when we reason, our actions match up to our words, and in general predictability is at its peak. But, our emotions do not listen to logic. In fact, our feelings OVERPOWER our logic; this is especially true when our feelings are intense. Thus, we can literally be outside of our mind when we are emotional. You’ll find that when a guy is emotional, he’ll never be able to do what he wants to do. He’ll say things and never be able to follow through with them. He’ll act strange, react even more oddly, and will even do things that seem to be completely out of character. This is where most women will become EXTREMELY confused. http://tinyurl.com/mpqcrqc
The Perfect Guide - How To Stop Being A Nice Girl And Make Any Man Want You! You’ll be so confused trying to figure out why it is that he is acting as he is, or why it is that he is saying certain things, that you will start to think that it’s your fault. When a man becomes unpredictable, and when his emotions start to overpower his logic, a woman will almost ALWAYS think she has done something wrong. But, you will never be able to figure out what it is that you’ve done wrong. He, of course, won’t explain himself either, but he can’t. And this is where it all boils down, because every single man faces a MAJOR dilemma, that women don’t even realize occurs. What is this dilemma? The dilemma is this: Men Fear Their Emotions. Yup, you ARE reading this correctly. Men are so terrified of their emotions that they become distraught whenever their emotions pass over the threshold of logic. Naturally, men are taught to be logical, and are told to suppress their emotions. http://tinyurl.com/mpqcrqc
The Perfect Guide - How To Stop Being A Nice Girl And Make Any Man Want You! From childhood till adulthood, they are conditioned to believe that expressing their emotions can be seen as unhelpful, a sign of weakness, problematic, and simply unacceptable. Thus, men learn to express themselves through logic instead, and as we know, logic never mixes with emotions; thus there is always a stark contrast in how a man thinks and how a woman thinks. This is why the statement “men are from Mars, and women are from Venus” sticks; because it’s a universal fact that at times men and women seem to be so completely different that it’s sometimes impossible to think they are from the same planet. To help you understand better, let’s put this into perspective. Consider the fact that women, are instead taught to express themselves through their emotions. Your entire life, you are taught that as a woman, you should connect with your emotions, should express yourself through emotion, and that your problems can be solved through emotion. http://tinyurl.com/mpqcrqc