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i''m too SHY to talk to GIRLS... HELP!!

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mannycliff9 (2 days ago)
when i started i was actually confident. but after getting rejected by every woman i just cant do it again. when i start talking to girls then in my head i always think she hates me. i think ill just stop. its making me depressed as fuck.
Bugsy (6 days ago)
I’m not shy, I just don’t know what to talk about. We say hi everyday when we see eachother in the hallway, but we won’t talk in class. My logic is it’s because I don’t know how to start a real convo
kevin Lockett (7 days ago)
Thanks for your help. For anyone who has deal with shyness and anxiety, this video helps too https://youtu.be/R86FTJi_ad0
Mj Fuesaina (8 days ago)
No this really is the answer I wanted. Thank you man😌
Max Delgado (9 days ago)
Man army feed me info I need help I’m desperate for any tips
Nick9910 (10 days ago)
"It sucks, your body goes into shock, you lock up, you freeze to death, you hate your life." LOL
Batmankiller 714 (10 days ago)
I Have A Table With 3 Other Girls And I’m Shy To Talk To Them. Any Pointers?
DanDawg05 (12 days ago)
I need help. So my crush just told some of her friends that she liked me and it spread to the whole school. I really like her and I want to go up and talk to her but I get nervous when she is with her friends and I’m with mine that things will get really awkward. Also everyone is going around saying “ship” names, I’m just worried if I go up to talk everyone is just going to bug me about it. Plz help me I really don’t wanna lose a amazing girl that are hard to come by.
KINGZ GODZ (11 days ago)
Tamilmaran C (14 days ago)
of course u r words are fact ...do practice talk with girls women frequently it shall be changed u r talk
Daniel Kreshin Jigon (15 days ago)
I thought the video was stuck at the point where you said "your body goes on lock up, you freeze to death, you hate your life"
Walter Pretorius (17 days ago)
Guess ill die alone
bryan paz (17 days ago)
I feel like I’m talking to myself. Telling people that truth in a way that leaves them feeling some type of way, I do not agree with leaving the comfort zone. It’s called a “ comfort zone” for a reason.
Enz0 Charlse (23 days ago)
Im not shy im just too ugly FML!!!
Dans Fulian (26 days ago)
Thanks :)
Eric Fartman (26 days ago)
It sucks, your body goes in the shock, you locked up, you freeze to death, you hate your life. After reading this you dont need to watch the video. You freeze to death. You hate ur life.
DJ Studio (28 days ago)
Thanks you just gave me the answer I was looking for all this time.
Becoolman 03 (1 month ago)
I have a reason I have tried and it end bad I mean really.it left an imprint on my mind so were I want to but that Though stops me
Darkflame Studios (1 month ago)
I live in alask so this is really convenient.
Vedang Sharma (1 month ago)
He looks like Cedric Alexander
devisiones67 bljet (1 month ago)
I was drunk and high at the same time and still was afraid to ask a girl to dance with me xd
B renegadde (1 month ago)
boys gets rejected 40 times in 2 months end result boy say forget about it and drinks bleach 😂😂😂
Frenchie Renard (1 month ago)
Listen, as a fellow lady, Dont be. LAdys have no reason to judge or be rude to you, unless their total jackasses
Gaz Murphin (1 month ago)
I panic when i get rejection 😂💔
Friend (1 month ago)
I dont care about genders but if you want to talk to girls then, remember this: Most of us, wait someone to speak to us first. But if everyone keeps on waiting, nothing will happen so you have to do the action. Mostly, just be yourself, dont be annoying or mean though, because that is what girls hate, and dont swear way too much. (Annoying=memelords who dab and say "oooh roast" <11 year old boys in our school< and express memes not so humourly in a wrong kind of tone. Always asking uncomforable questions and such. Etc? Mean=You know, being like an asshole/jerk, dont be a one or they will get a bad point of view from you.) and remember, if someone thinks that you are akward, maybe another one of them thinks that you are a kind/cool person. I am no good at words either as you can see, but you know, girls can be complicated at times, you may not understand how we feel and may get misunderstandings, but they may also feel akward too while talking to a boy? I do too, freeze while talking to boys because i listen much, ive seen them speak a few bad things about me, so i dont want to make them misunderstand anything and even if id like the things they talk about, i dont really feel comforable to talk to them. That's on how fucked up our mind arw.
blaze runner2051 (1 month ago)
Its been since school started that this one girl gives me signs that she's intressted into me. But lately she lost intressed (im pretty sure) and I don't know if I should go or I should let it die. And plus , she is my crush. But my shyness takes over unfortunately.
Akram Owaida (1 month ago)
Lorenzo Ramos (1 month ago)
So far this school year 4 girls gave me a chance but i fucked up because i was to scared to talk to them. 😢
Elvis Depresley (1 month ago)
This video sucks ass. Not cause it's poorly made, it's cause it's the truth. And it sucks.
andy 1999.2 (1 month ago)
My problem is not approaching to them. I just don't know what to say after I said hi. can anyone help ? Seriously I don't know what to say after hi
John A (2 months ago)
I'm hoping I don't have to talk to girls with that kind of repetition. If so I'm not doing something right. It's be nice if I could find the one and never have to do it again.
Abdel Elfazari (2 months ago)
1:42 When u desperately need that extra 30s on a video
NeuLawrence (2 months ago)
Id rather jump in that Alaska cold water than talk to a girl i real like
Steve Biju (2 months ago)
Nice tip
Nameless 18 (2 months ago)
I can talk to women. My only problem is talking to her ❤️.
Alienboi (2 months ago)
I don't even try to impress girls anymore. No ones gonna like me anyways
Ciobanu Alin (2 months ago)
Nicely said, man! You are right. Most of the videos, are teaching us what to do after we aproached a girl, but aproaching her, that, the first step, it's depending by each one of us and only us, can do it possible. Maybe it is not what people wants to hear, but this is also the truth! Keep up the good work. 😁
Prophet (3 months ago)
Yup they're human beings too don't be shy
Kobie Bervaldi (3 months ago)
I always get re-elected so I’m j like idgaf about these hoes no more
CARLOSMIRANDA (3 months ago)
I like this girl in my class in Photo class... :(
LVCID IS DEAD (3 months ago)
I personally am very very very shy around people, girls in general. It feels like sometimes when I talk to a girl my anxiety takes over and I start locking up. I feel very insecure about how I am as a person. I feel like I'm not safe in my own skin. I need help trying to overcome so I don't go down deeper.
Ben Tyler (3 months ago)
I’m a really loud talkative guy, but when I’m talking to a girl I like it just completely shuts off
Eddie da monk (3 months ago)
Hannah Duggan (3 months ago)
Dude, it's fine if you're too shy to talk to girls. I am always too shy to talk to strangers, who are both guys and girls. You're very handsome and very nice and very smart and it takes a very confident dude to make a YouTube channel and girls love confidence. If you wanna talk to girls, then just be yourself. Most girls like shy guys. Talking to girls is just like talking to guys, only don't treat them like guys unless they really want to because I know that there are lots of girls who act and think like guys. You're very cool, so why don't you just give it a go?
Serious Gaming (3 months ago)
I'm not shy just i talk to some girls I just feel weird to say a word, like if I like a girl...
Jude Ugboja (3 months ago)
No man is too shy if he finds something that connect him, there are some gals u see they look too hard on themselves for someone to approach i hate embarrassment
dúskurinn (4 months ago)
Today im shy but when i was in elementary school i was a pimp
tu4eva 007 (3 months ago)
Bruh story of my life... I started life as not giving a fuck then growing up I started to giving a fuck to not giving a fuck again at 30, stay strong.. .
Darth Retard (4 months ago)
Ive got so many female friends, but when they wanna get with me, I just shut down.
tu4eva 007 (3 months ago)
Maybe you was born to be Gay... maybe?
Vasu Aggarwal (4 months ago)
Bhai mai girls se boht try karne k liye but mujhe aesa lagta hai ki vo bor ho jati hai
reality police (4 months ago)
Same :D
Markus Kruber (4 months ago)
Better said than done lmao...
MALVINDINHO (4 months ago)
you better keep on being shy, girls are evil..., I see through them now..
City Sweets (2 months ago)
MALVINDINHO How are they evil?
sean stoll (4 months ago)
Love u bro no homo
Vijetha Madyastha (4 months ago)
You are the true sayer in youtuber bro
David Salazar (4 months ago)
What if you turn into a slut afterwords
CK Coupe (4 months ago)
For me i just got tired of thinking that i hate my life, in fact i hated life so much, that i got depressed, and anxious! that made me take my shit seriously. I was like damn wtf that depression is destroying me, and killing me slowly!! I thought like this...i will never go back to that state!! that day i got fed up with backing off, because i know i will go into an anxious state, which will give depression!! or vice versa. That is where i took my foot, and set it! now if i ever back out in a social situation, when i want something, i remind myself of what will happen. I got everything to lose, but not the life i want! because that will lead me to a life of unsatisfactory, and every kind of bulshitt! That is what gave me victory!
Maksim Todorov (4 months ago)
Really awesome video and great analogy. Loved it!
Mohamed Mohamed (4 months ago)
Probably, shyness is genetic.
Mohamed Mohamed (4 months ago)
if all these guys who watching this video are shy, So who are those guys with pretty girls outside? Zombies ! maybe
Lambochaser (5 months ago)
Mostly has to do with self confidence. If you feel that you're just an ugly piece of shit, then yeah you won't feel like you'd have a chance with any girl. You ignore any girl that comes your way. The list goes on. Also,I'm scribing myself here.
Lambochaser (5 months ago)
So we're like Raj from the big bang theory? ):
Shoeless Gaming (5 months ago)
what if the problem is you can hold a conversation fine and also make it interesting but you just don’t know how to initiate the conversation
Logan Butcher (5 months ago)
I go to all all boys school. It makes it even harder.
Oscar Games (6 months ago)
Me tooooo
Monsterist76 (6 months ago)
I used to think I was shy but it seems that years of habitually masturbating had drained my confidence, self esteem and motivation to approach girls and seek sex. Since going on Nofap and starting meditating, daily affirmations and exercising, I feel confident and more alpha. I aim to do 3 months hard mode to reboot, and then...look out, ladies!
FahoodO_O (6 months ago)
Im 16 years old 😊 But when a girl asks me to be her bf i just say no i have a girlfriend but tbh i don't even have a gf im just not too good with girls Im too shy 😢
jeremiah toussaint (6 months ago)
No shirt no shoes and i still got serves 1:32
Abe 47 (6 months ago)
tell me something i dont know
Michael Joseph (6 months ago)
I have one ex gf hell ya
EgyptianDragon (6 months ago)
I've been trying but I keep getting rejected in the most brutal ways. The most hurtful way is The ignoring! I'm starting to feel anger and resentment towards women. I'm lonely and my heart is broken. I wish I was dead.
City Sweets (2 months ago)
EgyptianDragon You May becomes socially akward then.
Cool Guy (6 months ago)
So if ive never approached girls before but theres this one girl that I MUST speak to. what then!!
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سعود العسيري (7 months ago)
I totally agree with you
Raphael (7 months ago)
I'm so fucking stupid. Everytime a girl looks at me I immediately assume they like me and I get fucking ankward or try to ignore them. Why am I like this
ThE E faCtoR (8 months ago)
Is it just me or does this guy look like drake
Carter Bryson (8 months ago)
I’m too shy to talk to women, I chicken out on talking to a girl, I go home and hate myself, the cycle continues
Matthew Reynozo (23 days ago)
寂しいコールド (24 days ago)
K. Adams niga reply wit full info, what happened and shyt
Novalized (1 month ago)
K. Adams how did it go?
K. Adams (1 month ago)
Dear abř32l I did it
AWESOME RD (1 month ago)
BRO my case is severe a cute girl came and talked to me but i cant talk properly becoz of some kind of shyness i reply late or talk something meaningless confused and then i go home and feel i should have not answered like that.however now itzz shyness is going day by day letss see..
Dawn (8 months ago)
i have a girl that i really like that is from the other class,same grade as me...but im too shy to approach her...i dont know like...when she wants to talk...is she gonna take wrong whatever i say...im just too scared...and im so sure she's the one...a girl from my class is her bff and she said that she really loves me...but i dont know if i should believe her...do i go for it? im scared ima get embarassed infront of all my friends...and thats like the worse thing...that happened to me once...i took my bike and i went to a short but very high bridge in my town...i was ready to end it there..but that didnt stop me i kept going...and if that happens again...i cant.
Josh (8 months ago)
Why does this video have 200k? You can sum it in 10 seconds. Waste of time.
Akaidan Tv (8 months ago)
Lol but I live in the middle of Alaska Fairbanks and swim
AestheticsAndFitness (8 months ago)
Why fear something that u can't lose? If u fuck up so what.....she will forget about it within a day or two.
unitor699 (8 months ago)
use cocaine
Seth Alexander (8 months ago)
There you go.
Apple Pie (8 months ago)
I thought he is going to say for 100 of time
TakeanL (8 months ago)
But how to avoid getting friend zoned by her?
#UNPLUGGED BOii (8 months ago)
Moroccan Funny Videos (8 months ago)
guys stop being shy ,you have nothing to lose girls are just human liike you wtf go on be confident and don't care about what will happen just smile and say something remember to don't get shocked just act like you are happy she will never notice that you are acting at the end of the converastion you are the winner in both cases if you get her number for a date that's really good and if not you will gain more experience and more confidence . sry for my bad english
MyGuyWiFi (8 months ago)
You can't fail if you never give up ;)
Kody N. Felix (9 months ago)
For a minute I thought this video was on repeat
寂しいコールド (24 days ago)
Kody N. Felix fr I was like WTF niga
NOOR'S channel (9 months ago)
Bitter but its true...
Alamin hassan (9 months ago)
You have no idea. It seems I have born with a sensitive notion. It's genetic!! Forget about talking, I can't even look at them easily. However, things are changing very slowly. Now I overcome the fear of seeing but I'm afraid I can't talk to any woman!! It's not like I don't want to,it's just I don't know. Just forget about it. It gives me pain and I am really jealous when I saw my friends and others do such thing and I am only the spectator!! Ah! can't describe it in words. But, I never lose hope. Hope is the thing which will guide me. I am sure somehow one day I will do it and I will have someone better than anyone. Best of luck to you guys
H vishwakarma (9 months ago)
I really like it thanku!
Brayden Russell (9 months ago)
Honestly so helpful your the best dude
kenneth andrews (9 months ago)
repetition means repeat?
kenneth andrews 😂😂😂😂
Seth Alexander (9 months ago)
SouthCalifas619 (9 months ago)
Im afraid that shel mace me or yell harassment or rape if i even look at a girl simply because im ugly. So to avoid going to jail id rather remain single and abstenant
Linus Bao (8 months ago)
SouthCalifas619 find a girl that's hella nice that u know won't do that
Prince Brown (9 months ago)
Alot of girls love me but i dont want to talk to them ,idk why because am an legend
Comet67 (9 months ago)
He looks like the wwe cruiserweight Cedric Alexander
xananasx (10 months ago)
The thing is , im not shy..Im confident af , but i just dont have nothing to talk about haha. Same with my friends , i talk what i have to talk bout and thats it.
ProPyrofreak (10 months ago)
Bra...when I jump in the hole in the ice and die, I can not do this sh*** again!
Nyirobi Ojulu (10 months ago)
I feel like a scrub and kinda embarrassed when I looked this up on youtube
oblivious108 (10 months ago)
Well, guess I'm ****ed.
Princess M (10 months ago)
This is the most helpful advice ever and themost honest. I'm a girl, and I watch these guys like me and just never make a move, always afraid, always shy. And you know what, it is modern times, i could make a move and make it easy for you guys. But I think if you can't even man up and do this, then you can't be successful in other areas of your life too.! Then women don't really want to be with you. I really appreciate advice from this guy, it is the best I have heard so far. I wish all the guys listen to this.
andy 1999.2 (1 month ago)
Princess M hi , I don't think if someone is shy to girls it means he is not successful in life . For example I'm 19 and I have a successful life and im getting ready to start a job and I have Serious crush on one of my female class mates and I don't know how to talk to her I don't even know if she likes me, like half of the time she is reading something on her book and the other half she is working with her phone its like she dont even care about these stuff .and all i come up with is to go to her and tell her hey I think it's good if we Know each other more and if she not rejected me I don't even know what to say after that 😥😐. Wouldn't be awkward if one of those guys come to you and tell you he likes to know you better and you agree and then he don't know what to say 😁. I think if you like one of those guys you should talk to him but it's your choice anyway . I hope you have great and beautiful life ( sorry if my English is not that good it's not my first language and sorry if it's get to long I'm terrible at explaining my point in short messages)
Shy Guy (9 months ago)
God, you are so pathetic, woman up!
Redrr Rrdssrt (10 months ago)
I think we got the point by the 2nd time you froze death. I honestly wanted to hurt you after 5th time, not necessary buddy boi

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